Is this place even active?

lol yeah

Yeah!

This site is active but it seems to have challenges. I don't know who monitors/keeps it. I don't think they are very active with this site. There are technical difficulties. I found I had to log out and log back in to access anything.

Hello Sam, this site is active. The dating portion of the site has been around for years and many new users are joining weekly. I recently released the forum section in March, so it may take a time for users to start using it for general talk.

It does have a ghost townish feel to it. It is a great idea, though.

I think a lot are bots and scammers, see peoples profile pics on other dating sites with different details. For those that are real, i don't see the point in joining a site if they going to message like once every few days which gives you the idea they don't really want anything. Honestly every app or dating site vie checked out has been trash and just scammers collecting your info. You can report all you want but the hosts will never remove these bots because it makes up most of the profiles on their app. I truly hate the digital world and what it has done to humanity. Well good luck all.

My biggest gripe with this site is the fact that notifications have never worked. I've used this site on at least five different devices and have never received a notification on any of them. You have to manually check messages every time you log in, and I've gotten a lot of messages, but never a notification on any of them. There are other broken aspects of this site, and I can't begin to imagine actually paying a monthly fee for any of it. I guess, it is what it is.